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We all have those days, those days when nothing is going to plan, you donāt feel like doing the things you know you have to and you just want to start again. Those days when you feel like giving up. The thing is that research has shown that grit is the characteristic linked most closely to success.
QUOTE OF THE DAY
āSometimes you win, Sometimes you learnā
In simple terms, you canāt fail unless you give up.
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE GIVING UP
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We all have those days, those days when nothing is going to plan, you donāt feel like doing the things you know you have to and you just want to start again. Those days when you feel like giving up. The thing is that research has shown that grit is the characteristic linked most closely to success.
Therefore giving up isnāt an option so here are a few tricks you can use to not give up:
Know that youāll never regret it.
You will never regret not giving up, just like how youāll never regret going to the gym or eating healthy. You only regret what you know you shouldnāt have done and therefore you will never feel worse after the hard work is done. The mental barrier to starting and completing that hard work is the grit that shines through so know that there is only light on the other side.
Know that Discomfort Is Temporary
Similar to a previous topic we talked about known as āThe pain periodā, itās important to remember that in order to grow we have to experience discomfort and pain. That is the only formula that leads to some positive outcomes. You have to tear your muscles before you rebuild them, you have to be uncomfortable before youāre comfortable. Itās all part of the process.
Itās all part of life!
Life is a constant balance between giving into the ease of distraction or overcoming the pain of discipline. It is not an exaggeration to say that our lives and our identities are defined by this delicate balance. What is life, if not the sum of a hundred thousand daily battles and tiny decisions to either gut it out or give it up?
This moment when you donāt feel like doing the work? This is not a moment to be thrown away. This is not a dress rehearsal. This moment is your life as much as any other moment. Spend it in a way that will make you proud.
ACTIONABLE NEXT STEPS:
Next time you feel like giving up, re-open this email - take a read and be better off for it.
TAKEAWAYS:
Feeling like giving up is part of the process, itās those with grit that stick through it and find light at the end of the tunnel.
BOOK OF THE WEEK ā¤µļø
The book of the week is āThe Laws Of Human Nature by Robert Greenā, itās a similar book to The 48 Laws of Power but focused on decoding the behaviour of the people around you and helps you understand why people do what they do and how you can use both your own psychological flaws and those of others to your advantage. Read it HERE
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LESSON OF THE DAY ā¤µļø
Don't make irrational decisions based on past investments.
Just because you've invested a certain amount of time into something doesn't mean that you can't let it go or you have to continue doing it.
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