12 Rules For Life

Jordan Peterson is a world-renowned psychologist and quite a controversial one at that. He is more well known in the modern day for tacking psychology of religion and social conflict issues with an extremely unique perspective.

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Callum Carver
December 18, 2023

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12 RULES FOR LIFE

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Jordan Peterson is a world-renowned psychologist and quite a controversial one at that. He is more well known in the modern day for tackling psychology of religion and social conflict issues with an extremely unique perspective.

Today we are going to be covering his best seller, with millions of copies sold worldwide, ‘12 Rules for Life'—an  antidote to chaos.

To give you all you need in 2 minutes, heres the summary:

  1. Stand up straight with your shoulders back. Peterson argues that humans have evolved to respond to body language and that standing up straight with your shoulders back communicates confidence and competence.

This can help you feel more confident and assertive, which can improve your success in life.

  1. Treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping. Peterson argues that many people are more willing to take care of others than they are of themselves.

He believes that people should treat themselves with the same care and concern that they would show to a loved one.

This can involve developing healthy habits, setting goals, and taking steps to improve your physical and mental well-being.

  1. Make friends with people who want the best for you. Peterson argues that people are influenced by the people they surround themselves with, and he encourages readers to cultivate relationships with people who will support and encourage them rather than those who will bring them down.

  2. Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today. Peterson believes that people should focus on their own personal growth rather than comparing themselves to others. He encourages readers to set goals and work towards becoming a better version of themselves.

  3. Do not let your children do anything that makes you dislike them. Peterson says that it is important for parents to set clear boundaries and rules for their children. He believes that children need structure and discipline to develop into responsible and productive adults.

  1. Set your house in perfect order before you criticise the world. The sixth rule is about taking responsibility for your own life. Peterson argues that people should focus on improving themselves and their immediate surroundings before trying to change the world.

He says that individuals can have a positive impact on the world by first improving themselves and their own lives.

  1. Pursue what is meaningful, not what is expedient. The seventh rule is about finding purpose and meaning in life. Peterson argues that people should strive to find activities and goals that give their lives meaning rather than simply pursuing pleasure or material possessions.

  2. Tell the truth, or at least don't lie. The eighth rule is about honesty.

Peterson argues that lying and deception can have negative consequences for individuals and society as a whole. He encourages people to strive for honesty and integrity in their words and actions.

  1. Assume that the person you are listening to might know something you don't. Peterson says that people should approach conversations with an open mind and a willingness to learn from others. He believes that listening to different perspectives can help people broaden their understanding of the world.

  2. Be precise in your speech. The tenth rule is about communication. Peterson argues that using precise language can help people avoid misunderstandings and communicate more effectively. He encourages readers to be clear and concise in their speech.

  3. Do not bother children when they are skateboarding. The 11th rule is about allowing children to take risks and explore their world.

Peterson believes that children need the freedom to explore and take risks in order to develop independence and resilience.

  1. Pet a cat when you encounter one on the street. Peterson uses this rule to illustrate the importance of finding pleasure in life's small moments. He encourages readers to appreciate the beauty and joy in the world around them, even in seemingly insignificant interactions.

BOOK OF THE WEEK ⤵️

The book of the week is ‘12 Rules For Life’ By Jordan Peterson. in this book Peterson lays out 12 rules that he believes can help people live a more meaningful and fulfilling life. Check it out HERE

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Successful people become successful by learning to fail without becoming failures.

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